Personality: someone who is confident, but his confidence must be a personal affair, such that he knows his own self-worth, but does not advertise it. someone who demands respect not because he is physically intimidating but because he presents himself in a manner worth appreciating. someone who can take initiative. someone who is decisive. someone who is considerate.

Physically: tall. charming facial features (something memorable/distinctive like, for instance, wrinkles around the eyes when he’s smiling). clean. non-flashy. does not dress like he’s some fashionista. natural black hair. no face piercings. no make up. no cropped eye brows. Basically, I like my men looking like men. 

I do not “follow” blogs by tumblr’s definition. My dashboard is empty. I bookmark some blogs here and there. But even so, I do not visit any blogs that are similar to mine. Sorry that this is such a disappointing reply. 

The whole “I did the math” part kind of freaked me out. But you redeemed yourself quickly with that Lee Hi comment. It’s very sweet of you to send me this. You’re welcome. 

Bottoms usually look for an older brother figure (as incestuous as that sounds) who can provide security and comfort in the ways that only a man can provide. 

Tops usually look for (and I quote my boyfriend) “a pet who needs to be taken care of.” Think about it, even straight Korean guys become weak-kneed by cute boys. And by “cute” I am not referring to the fake, overly-expressive, forced smiley eyes kind of cute, but rather, I am talking about that genuine innocence. In short, I think they look for a cute, best friend. 

If you’re reading this and you’re thinking that it’s too general…well…that’s because it is. This question necessitates a sweeping-statement kind of answer.