I am gay, but I am human first. My sexuality does not define me. Simply put, I am just a guy who like guys. I don’t go to gay clubs. I don’t see the point in going around and promoting my gay-ness, just like it makes no sense for straight people to go around priding themselves for being straight. Heterosexuals and Homosexuals are equals. I am the “type” of gay that likes it in the closet and see no reason why people are in such a rush to get out. Again, I am human first. “Gay” is a trait of my human-ness. We don’t define people by their pubic hair color, so let’s not define people by their sexual preference. and for poetic interest i will say it again, I am human first.